Monday, February 16, 2015
I also feel that it's fun to look for opportunities to give during the day. And sometimes it's hard to decide if something counts. Does the $15 tip for a massage count when I would have always given that tip? It's hard to say. I find I usually end up giving more than one small thing during the day and then whichever gift feels more right to count, regardless of price, is what I count.
If you have a story of giving and receiving, please share.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
While I've already done quite a few; visited Italy, went scuba diving in Cozumel, went parasailing at Catalina Island and visited NYC, there are still quite a few things I'd like to do in this lifetime.
Here are a few I still want to fit in:
Go paintballing—scheduled for this weekend
Teach English in another country
Live in Cali
Live on the East Coast
Cruise in Alaska
Fly in a helicopter
Sew an entire outfit
Write a book
Visit London and Paris
There's a lot more for sure, but I'd like to keep it manageable for now and add on when I can. I also have a list of smaller things that I can do in a weekend or a day in my notebook, so I can do them and scratch them off as the opportunity arises. I've found that writing things down does make it more likely that you'll do them. Before when someone would mention a trip I'd think I will never have the money to do that, but now when they mention it I ask when are you leaving, so I can calculate whether or not I have the time to save up. Usually I do.
Make your own bucket list and share it. I'd love to hear some of your ideas!
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
The Art of Non-conformity has a great post on how to do a yearly review, which looks back at the past year to see what you've accomplished, as well as look forward to what you'd like to do in the new year. If you are a GTDer, this follows David Allen's Getting Things Done system. There is even an Excel spreadsheet for you to fill out your personal goals for 2011, with flexibility to add your own categories.
I'm filling it out myself and one of the things I'd like to develop in the New Year is to be more grateful. I see this happening by keeping an ongoing list of things I'm grateful for. Part of the reason I began this blog was to get rid of the things that don't add anything to my life, hoping hat the things I decided to keep would be things that I truly loved and enjoyed—things to be grateful for.
Here are a few things I'm grateful for from 2010:
- I'm relatively healthy.
- I have a decent paying job where I can use my creativity and many people in Central Texas read my work each month.
- I have a nice camera, which I bought this year.
- My family has always been there for me when I needed them and I'm thankful for the time I spent with them in Italy.
- I'm thankful for having the needed resources to take a trip abroad for the first time in my life.
- I'm thankful for my friends, who put up with me, even though I can be grouchy at times.
- I'm thankful for the small space I've been renting from a friend for the past year, which is very inexpensive for Austin.
- I'm thankful for extended family.
- I'm thankful for having clothes to keep me warm and food to sustain me.
- I'm thankful for my parent's dog, Coco, who shows us how to love people unconditionally.
- I'm thankful for the library, which allows me to read good books and watch good movies endlessly.
Saturday, December 11, 2010
December 11 – 11 Things http://www.reverb10.com/december-11-11-things/
Today's prompt at Reverb 10 was a good one that I'd like to share. Here it is and my response is below. How about writing your own?
What are 11 things your life doesn’t need in 2011? How will you go about eliminating them? How will getting rid of these 11 things change your life?
By Tiffany Young
Only 11? I guess that's enough for now.
My No. 1 thing to gt rid of is people who put me in a box. Do you have any of these people in your life that always thinks they know who you are and what you're thinking but they are way off? You think you're close with them, but then the negative comments come through and ruins your day? Those are the people I'm getting rid of in 2011.
No. 2 is all the extra clothes I've been meaning to get rid of, but never do. I have too many clothes for my closet and bedroom and car all put together, but I let them sit around doing no good for me or anyone else. Those days are gone!
No. 3 will be working many, many hours without getting any closer to my goals. In the new year my current job will have to give me more than it has been or I'll have to figure something else out. I love parts of my job, but the parts I don't are going to have to disappear!
No. 4 is the papers I have around my room. Things need to either be in a filing cabinet or put away somewhere or dealt with. No more keeping paper out until I figure out what to do with it. When in doubt, throw it out!
No. 5 (this is fun, btw) is my dirty car. I'm not getting rid of the car, but cleaning it up and giving it the attention it deserves!
No. 6 is worrying what others think of me. It's none of their business! I'm never going to be what they want me to be, so why try?
No. 7 will be spending money so easily. This past month I've been spending money every time I turn around and I need to take back control of my finances.
No. 8 is timidity. Gone are the days of feeling incompetent. I've proven myself otherwise and need to believe that's true!
No. 9 is my storage space. I originally only got storage because I was going to buy a house soon, but since that hasn't happened and isn't on the horizon, I need to clean out that space and save the money I'm putting into the wasted space.
No. 10 is trying to read every blog I'm subscribed to. It's just never going to happen. If I want to read it I will, but I shouldn't feel I need to.
No. 11 is I'm letting go of things I once wanted to accomplish, but now no longer care about. This is hard for me! I want to accomplish anything and everything I ever wrote down as a good idea to do someday, but I've changed a lot over the years and need to deal with that.